Tips and How To Discipline a Child

Tips and How To Discipline a Child | As a parents, sometimes might lost temper to our child. Subconsciously, we beat the child with a stick or anything that can be accomplished by hand. After the child crying, then we will feel sorry. Very sad when thinking about it, right? This time, let's share tips and how to discipline a child with a more effective way:

Tips and How To Discipline a Child

1. Avoid the word 'Don't'

Screaming 'Don't' is synonymous to all parents. Ideally, change that words to another word. Don't say "Don't" (See! We've been use "Don't" already). For example, if there are two brothers, likes to play and fight together. Suddenly the little brother cry. What parent will say, "Don't hit your little brother".

Try taking and use different dimensions and approaches. Call your children hug them and explain to them the good and bad behavior for example "you all need to play equally. Siblings should be happy playing together". Which one is more effective or better?

Parents will be a teachers and role models to the children. Everything parent do, your children will follow. So, let us get rid of our bad habits. Show only the good habit for good future of our children.

2. Avoid hitting our children

This is most easily. Need to persuade and educate ourselves as parents. Hitting is no use at children, tomorrow he will do it again. Not at all but just need some solid ground reason and evidence in front of  our eyes. If you want to beat though, hit smoothly just to enlighten the children. Hit that allowed is at the legs, thighs and below only.

3. Praise children in front of others

When our children behave well, praise him. When you return home or are at a friend's house as a guest, praise your child in front of everyone. This will make her proud and feel appreciated. Of course he will not mischievously again in the home. Always give warmth hugs to your children. There are many advantages hugging your children.


3. Learn more about 'child development' and 'parenting knowledge' or 'parenting skill'

Not everything our parents taught it right. There may be correct, there may be wrong. To educate our children in the best way, try to follow the parenting classes if there is time. The advice given from the experts should be useful. Moreover at this present age, the children growth with new challenges. During we are children there are no iPad and tablet. We only kept playing outdoor games. Now no more.

4. Use the 'Reward System'

This is not corruption. When the kids 'behave' and totally good and diligent help us, we should give him a reward. Praise first, hugging tightly, let the children felt that we love them. Don't give candy as a reward. Later will damaged their teeth. For example, "If you can be number one, mom will bought a new bike." If the bike is his dream, he will work hard. As another example, "untidy your room/toys first, then mom will let you watch cartoon".

5. Use the 'Distraction' to divert the focus of child

If your children like to jump on the sofa,  try invite children to play jump out of the home. Like to smeared walls, try buy a coloring book. If you have more money, let the children play play-dough or clay to do what he loves. Buy Lego for children to build an architectural buildings and all sorts of things to avoid your children from disturb your house work.

6. Teach the 'Logical Consequences'

For example, if a child likes to play near the road, , then say nicely to your child "its dangerous to play near the road. You can be hit by bike or car". This will provide a logic signal on the child, that if playing at the road, can be hit by a car. Obviously children will not playing near the road.

7. Technique 'Positive Discipline'

This means that, if children do wrong, do not continue to be angry, "Don't do like that!!" (See! We use 'don't' again. Not good). If kids spill water at the dinner table, do not get angry to the child. Children will protest and cry. Soon, the children will do it again. Instead of scolding, teach your children "Look dad do like this, hold the cup with both hands. So it will not spill" When the kids do what we ask, directly praise your child. In addition, teach children to respect the elders. Teach your child to shake hand and to kiss the hands.

Conclusion

There are too many ways that we can follow to discipline our child. What is important, parents need to be patience with the hassle of a child.

Happy child rearing and appreciate their expansion process. Undoubtedly, you will miss those little moments of the day.