Tuesday, 30 August 2016

Father role in daughter development

Basically, Mom and Dad have an important role as parents in creating a child's personality. In general, care will be mostly done by Mother, while the father is to have a role in making a living. Nevertheless, the role of father is also still needed in educating children, not least for girls.

DAD ROLE IN DEVELOPMENT OF GIRL
Generally, a father has a less prominent role in parenting because of his work in the work. Even many fathers who had to leave for work before the kids get up, and go home after the child fell asleep. Such conditions are obviously very unfortunate, because it makes the intensity of the father in interacting with their children is very little. Finally, the father did not have a lot of different roles in their children's growth.


Now, regarding the development of the girl, there are some benefits if a father actively involved in their children's growth. What are they?

Shows Sense of Love
The main key to being a good father is to show love to his daughter. No need to be embarrassed to show affection to your daughter, be it through a smile, a hug, a touch, or passing sentences that imply that you really love. Behavior such as this will affect the behavior of your daughter currently have a husband someday.

 Shows Respect
One thing that is very important in developing the character of your daughter into an adult girl is to learn to respect others. It can start by showing love to her and also to the mother, the wife of your own. Remember, kids will learn from what he saw as a child.

The child will observe harmony shown by the father and mother. If the father can not honor his wife, as bossy, do not want to listen to his wife opinion, to do violence, then this will have a bad effect on the psychological development of girls.

The respect shown by the father not only to his wife and children, but also to any woman who was in the family and in the outside environment. Loving relationship between mother and father become the basic foundation in building the child's personality are balanced. The child will see it as a relationship that gave a sense of comfort that has a good impression of the wedding itself.

Lessons provide love
The role of father in child development is the next women's love affairs. This is because a girl will use a father figure as a benchmark to see the quality of the man. Whether he can be relied upon as father? If he can honestly and give love like a father? Is the man can appreciate a woman like that done by the father?

In addition, the father also has a role as a source of information that can be trusted by children, especially in matters of romance. You do not need to be embarrassed to answer sensitive matters such as the dangers of smoking ks or s * s * ks infectious diseases. If a girl does not have this kind of instruction and guidance of his father, then he will lose direction and has the potential to become wild.

appreciate time
If you are indeed a father who does not have much time with your daughter, for example, for a job that requires you not to stay at home, then make sure that you can be present on the day-to-day importance.

For those who are divorced, no matter what happens to you and his ex-wife, there is no reason that can make you break up with your daughter. Remember, there is no such thing as a former subsidiary. However, educating children are the responsibility of the father and mother, even if they do not stay the same roof.

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A few information about the father's role in the development of girls. Hopefully this can get you into a good figure for the development of your daughter.

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